Phone sex involves two persons who are willing to satisfy each other sexually over the phone. Once you’ve learned how to continuously build up the arousal and sustain the mood, you can always expect an explosive and phenomenal “happy ending”. And the experience can be more gratifying than you can ever think of. As dirty and naughty as it may sound, some people may find phone sex uncomfortable, embarrassing, and even funny. But if you’ll widen your perspectives and broaden your horizon, you would realize that phone sex is actually the closest thing to actual and real sex.
If you want to explore this exciting world, here are some tips and tricks that can give you the best and most titillating experience;
Get in the mood
Choose a private and quiet spot that is free from distractions. Prepare a setup that is conducive for phone sex; this could mean dimming down the lights, playing some soft music, lighting some scented candles, and lying on a comfortable bed or couch.
Don’t be afraid to let loose
Do whatever it takes to release the tension from your body. This could mean drinking a glass of wine while relaxing and conditioning your body. It also helps to wear something sexy like skimpy lingerie or just go naked under the sheets.
Turn yourself on
Prepare yourself like you would when you’re anticipating hot sex with your partner. You can start caressing your body while thinking about your lover and imagining all the things you’d want him to do to you.
Start with an introduction and a casual topic
Once you’re on the line with your phone sex partner, introduce yourself and get on with any casual topic. You can start infusing the conversation with whatever you’re in the mood for such as playing naughty or innocent. Try to sound as desirable as you can and try to go with the flow to turn your chat partner on.
Communicate how you feel
When you’re having phone sex, you must be vocal about what you’re feeling. Try to describe the physical sensations and the emotional feelings that you’re having as a result of what you’re doing and hearing from your chat partner. Express your pleasure verbally.
If you’re not too comfortable about dirty talking, communicate how you’re feeling by breathing heavily until you’re comfortable enough to moan and express that you want more.
Use sex toys
You can further intensify the pleasure by using sex toys or sex aids. Men can use masturbators or fleshbacks; while women can use dildos, lubricants, or vibrators. A little creativity and a great deal of imagination can make phone sex seem real and satisfying. Of course, it would make a lot of difference if you’ll find a really good, generous, and dirty talking chat partner.
If you feel an orgasm coming, be vocal about it
There’s really nothing explicit or embarrassing about being expressive and extra dramatic than usual when you orgasm during phone sex. Basically, you’d want to make sure that your phone sex chat partner is fully aware that you’re getting the best out of it. It’s much like returning the favor and wanting your partner to experience the same pleasure.
Close your eyes
Have you heard the proverbial saying that the most passionate moments are intensified if you’ll savor the moment with your eyes closed? That’s why we close our eyes whenever we kiss and make love with our partner.
Consider this when having phone sex because the act itself will require you to be extra expressive and responsive about how you’re feeling during its entire course. So close your eyes and allow your senses to take over.
Overcome your shyness
Whether you’re having phone sex with a stranger or with someone you’re in a relationship with, being relaxed and receptive is the best way to achieve a gratifying and pleasurable experience. So, please, just get over your shyness.
Do it again
As the saying goes; practice makes perfect. So if you want to spice up your sex life, build your confidence in sex, and master the language and techniques of phone sex; just do it again. You’ll eventually realize that as you do it more often, it actually gets more intensifying and you are able to let your kinky side get loose whenever you feel like being sexy.